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Can you be complete when alone

by Emily Pertee

Created on: February 15, 2010

Alone and feeling complete tells the world you can find happiness and joy in the freedom of just being yourself at all times. Your choice in being alone is for searching and analyzing yourself for the qualities that makes you a unique individual. Some people need some alone time to reflect, clear out their thoughts, and feel liberated. A sense of self-satisfaction with yourself can help you overcome any delusions of needing someone around to make you happy. Only you have the power to make your own happiness.

Being able to create your own happiness shows that you are confident and you respect yourself. When you are alone, you become more aware of your surroundings, a stronger person, and more independent. It is a complete and enriching experience to know you can navigate your way through this life all by yourself. You can assert yourself in any task with a good feeling that whatever you are working on will have your utmost full attention. Being alone can help you to become more focused and honed in on detailed projects.

Your ideas, interests, and your true character makes up who you are. Someone else does not help you feel like a complete human being, only you have that power to instill good qualities inside yourself. Another person may be able to fit into your life like a puzzle piece, but it's usually because they share very similar interests as you. We came into this world alone and we will leave this world alone.

The core of our being starts with ourself alone. We begin to build upon it, which turns our to be our personality trait. If you truly believe in yourself, being alone will not affect you in the least. There may come a time where you may not want to be alone anymore, therefore, you will shine with integrity, dignity, and self-confidence. You won't have to waste precious time on little insecurities to hold you back from a productive relationship.

What you see is what you get will be at face value. Finding true meaning and what is important to you in your life is something that is done alone. Your inner thoughts and feelings guides and directs you on your journey. If you are alone right now, the journey through this life will be what completes you. Yes, most definitely, you can be complete when alone.


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