by Lindsay Fahey

Created on: February 01, 2010   Last Updated: February 02, 2010

Friends are one of life's necessities that it would be impossible to live without. Friends make you happy when you are sad, and sometimes make you sad when you are happy. Friendship is a two way street, and will only last a long time if the love is reciprocated.

Not all people can have the sacred vow of friendship. Some people are not meant to be friends, and some people could be friends for two lifetimes. The pure definition of friendship is different to all people who have friends. Some may call their mother, brother, or pet a friend. Other's may call the doorman, mailman, or teacher a friend. It's a wonderful word, because when someone calls you a friend, you get a special feeling inside like you've been doing something right all along.

Friends are the people you spend time with because you want to, not because you have to. Friends are the people who will always be there for you. Some friends will treat you like family. Some friends will be your family. Friends care as much as family, and will be strong for you like family. People who say "blood is thicker than water" have never truly had a friend. Nothing compares to someone feeling a special love for you who absolutely doesn't have to. That's a great and wonderful revelation.

Friends cheer you on during a competition. They cry with you when someone you loved has died. They listen when you go on about your latest relationship, and they tell you he isn't good enough for you anyway. Friendship is difficult to maintain, especially over time. Friends don't always last, and can sometimes be out of touch. Some friends talk every day, send cards on birthdays, and gifts on Christmas. Friends are relationships you choose to have and put the effort into. Much effort is required for friendships, because there is nothing binding you to the person, except for the fact that you want to be bound to them.  Friends require phone calls, cards, emails, and reminders that you'll always be there. Friends will come and go, like love. Unlike love, you can always count on a friend to do the right thing for you.

The best of friends have the best of intentions, and knowing that a friend has your back is a reassuring feeling. Friends will always love you and care for you because they know you will do the same for them. Friends last forever as long as you let them.

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