by Carmel Brulez

Created on: January 20, 2010   Last Updated: January 21, 2010

It is true that love is not something you can buy.  Even an old, ugly billionaire is not buying love when he gets a beautiful busty blonde to spend time with him.  The idea of Plentyoffish.com is to provide a website where people can meet someone,  or various someones, that they wish to meet up with,  but without paying anything to belong to the site.  

In order to be able to properly evaluate the site you have to have been a member for a while and it is important that you have also joined and used other dating sites so that you have something to compare it to.  Now that I have been a member of Plentyoffish.com for a while and a member of other dating sites too I can honestly give a realistic and helpful analysis if whether or not this is a good site.

For those who are looking for free sites to join Plentyoffish is one of many.  There are lots of other sites available on the net that are totally free to join, so nobody needs to feel that if they are seeking a free site it must be Plentyoffish.  Plentyoffish advertises a lot more, which should result in more people belonging to and using the site, giving you a greater chance of finding someone. 

Now that I have belonged to dating sites and used them for a while I have to say that there is a huge difference between free sites and paid for sites.  Free sites, unfortunately, attract some unsavoury characters. Women are much more likely to get men on these that are asking them about their sex lives and wanting to talk sexy to them or just meet them for instant sex,  they are also more likely to get a married man or a man in a relationship who only wants a very casual thing or a very one sided thing.   Men likewise need to be cautious of the sort of person that is attracted to a free site.  One man I know who joined a free site met two of the people he exchanges messages with.  One of them put huge scratches in the side of his Ferrari when he was politely refusing to meet up again. The other one insisted that they were going to live together and get married on the first meet.  You do have to ask yourself what sort of person thinks that something as important as finding a life long partner is something which is not worth investing money in,  or who cannot afford it.  Most of us can find money to have the washing machine repaired,  go out for a few evenings,  have a holiday or buy some clothes,  and it only

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