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To get over someone, its very hard to do long term. I am afraid there is no easy solution.
You have to re-program and re-style your life.
Eliminate or return anything that belongs to that person. Anything that reminds you of them, photos etc. There is no point being reminded of heart ache.
If you lived with them, re-arrange the furniture, house clean, re-organize, put things just how you want them. Make everything about you, go to spas, join a gym, do something out of the usual, something new and refreshing.
Go shopping and get some new clothes. Try some new restaurants.
Don't do anything that will bring back memories, good or bad. Don't frequent places you went together.
Give yourself time to heal. Start a journal of your feelings and write everyday, whether you're feeling happy or sad.
Try to look at your lost relationship as a new step down your individual life path.
Look at it as a learning experience and take that with you into your next, whenever fate allows it.
Whatever you do, don't rush into another relationship if you are still having feelings for your ex. Time heals all wounds.

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