by Paula P.

Created on: January 02, 2010

There is no doubt that there are certain times where hearing "I love you" is more meaningful than other times. The first "I love you" is one of them. Letting that special someone know you love them is somewhat of reassurance. Sure, some might argue that you don't need those words to prove to them that you love them, rather, actions should be what should show them that you love them. While agree actions can mean more, sometimes even just saying it can even show you how much that person hearing it actually means to you.

Some do not like hearing those three words used to often. Some argue it loses its meaning after awhile. While I can see their point of view, I believe when it's with the right person you cannot get enough of hearing them say it or letting them show it along with reciprocating those feelings and actions. My point of view is that if the feelings aren't mutual, and I'm saying if this is a romantic relationship, one of them won't say it as much. This comes from both experience and seeing many girls fret over "Oh my God, he hasn't said it yet!". Many people find it hard to say, or continually say it, when the words have no meaning behind it. That is when it should not be said.

I will say it cannot be said enough when the people are truly dedicated to one another, but I will also say that it can be said too much when it's said as "just because" words. As an example, when people (usually friends or some family members) say "Love you!" as a way to 'let you know that I definitely care about you, now will you please do this favor for me?' . That is one of the very few examples where saying it is unnecessary. That, and the fact that it's unnecessary to say it when you don't mean it. Saying it without feeling is when it's overdone. Perhaps it can be said too much if the other person does not want to hear it.

Sometimes just hearing those three words from someone that really cares about you is the best thing. When you mean it, why not say it as much as you can? You never know if it's the last time. Cherish those that matter most and let them know that you love them and care about them. I have seen those that aren't very close tend to never say it while many strong couples continue to say it.

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