by Cherlee

Created on: December 21, 2009

We as women have an excellent radar to recognize when a man is cheating. If only we listen to it with an open mind and not ignore all the signs. Sometimes we tend to ignore the signs hoping it will go away. Knowing in our hearts it is not going to go away. The longer we leave it, the harder it is to deal with it. Below is a list of things to check off if you feel your man is cheating.

Now do not go and jump on your man and accuse him right away, this will not help the situation . Always make sure you have a lot of proof before confronting him. Men have a wonderful way of turning this onto you. Making you feel like you are over reacting to nothing. But remember if you are a jealous person to begin with you also may see signs that are not there. So make sure that you have enough reason to accuse him of cheating.

1. Is your man taking care of himself, for example if he was not a person to shower everyday or shave everyday and now he is. I am not saying he is cheating this is just a small sign. Is he getting more haircuts and making himself look much better than he use to? He is starting to use cologne and trying to smell nice when he is out. This could be a sign.

2. If he is coming home later and later each night, because he says he is working overtime. Or if he says he is going out with the guys for a few beers and doesn’t come home until much after the bars close. This could be a sign.

3. If you have noticed he has not really said your name in a few weeks, but is always using names like babe, honey sweetheart ect. And he doesn’t usually do this. This could be a sign. The reason he may be calling you by a pet name is, he will not make a mistake and call you by her name. He may only call each of you by pet name it’s much safer for a cheater to do this.

4. If you know all his passwords to all his Internet accounts. Then suddenly you try to get into one of his accounts and notice he is changed them . He may be hiding emails, messages, videos of the person he is cheating with on his computer.

5. If he is texting on his cell phone to someone you have never met or hear of or talked about . When you ask their name and he doesn’t tell you he is hiding something. Or he tells you a name and your not sure who they are, but you ask about them and he is avoids the question. This could be a sign.

6. He has a camera and you notice the same girl in many of his photos when he is out with the guys. You ask and he avoids the questions. This could be another

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