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Created on: December 18, 2009
When your sister turns her back on you
When my sister was single, living on her own with her children I was there for her when she needed someone. She left her first husband for this jerk, she thought he was so cute. My mom and dad told her that he was just using her, she wouldn't listen. One time she was coming over to my mom and dads house with her new boyfriend, my dad left. There was one time my dad and sister had a big fight, I drove her home after the fight. She would constantly call me at work, crying on my shoulder. She called me so much my co-workers felt sorry for me. One time she got arrested for shoplifting, she calls me at work because she needed money for the fine, like a fool I gave it to her. I was one of her witnesses at her divorce trial. I bought food for her and her children when she didn't have money for food.
My sister is married to her second husband. She constantly puts me down in front of other people. There was a High School reunion dinner that was arrange on facebook. A guy I used to go to school with asked me if I was going to the dinner, I said Yes.I went to the restaurant. One of my classmates came up to me and said " Your sister said you would not show up and you are here before her and started laughing" My sister comes in with another classmate, she saw that I was there she said" I thought you would not show up". We all had to wait for our table. When our table was ready my sister leaves. The next day she told everybody the reason that she left was because of me. She said that I needed to learn how to talk to other people. My sister and I live in different cities. I never see her and she never sees me. I talked to other people all the time. She made a fool out of me.
This Christmas my mom asked for a Wii, she wanted all of us kids to chip in and buy it for her. This is the first Christmas, where my mom actually asked for something. My mom made the mistake of asking my sister to order the Wii, she asked one of my brothers to chip in, left me and my other brother out. Now I hear that my brother who wasn't asked is going to buy my mom the Wii fit. This Christmas will be the worst Christmas of my life. I have to sit there while my sister and two brothers flaunt their 100.00 in my face. My sister paid 100.00 , my brother paid 100.00 for the Wii , my other brother paid 100.00 for the Wii fit.
My sister said that I need help because I made a big deal of being left out. Well if I was in charge of the Wii and I left her out , it would be entirely different, my sister would cry on my moms shoulder, my mom would call me and make me include her. I also e-mailed her and reminded her of all the things I did for her. I was at my moms house Sunday, my sister called ,she wanted to come over, She told my mom she will come over after I leave. I wish I could turn back time and go back to the coffee shop I used to work at and everytime my sister called me at work crying on my shoulder, I would tell her no and also tell her to stop calling me at work. I wish I didn't give her the money for her fine when she got arrested for shoplifting, I should of let her go to jail.
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