by Lija Neal

Created on: December 08, 2009   Last Updated: December 09, 2009

Speaking from a woman's point of view, finding out if a girl likes you is not always easy.Its not easy because there is that fear of rejection. Especially if you think she likes you and she really doesn't. But since women don't always tell how they feel, pay attention to her actions or words.

 A lot of people do not know how to approach a woman to strike up a conversation or tell if someone likes you. Its all in how someone treats you and how they respond to you when you are speaking to them. if a person seems happier when they are around you and listens closely to your every word then this person must love you.

When trying to figure if a woman likes you there are some small things to pay attention to. If she seems more interested in your activities, career, and well being then she is trying to get closer. It also could be as simple as always smiling and showering you with compliments. Sometimes, men overlook the girl who is their best friend that is always there for them no matter what. Always keep an open eye on your best friend because she could possibly be the one that is best for you. You might notice a physical thing about this girl, she might appear shy when she sees you or stumbles over her words. 

To tell if someone likes you is the way they talk to you. The way a person communicates to you always is an good indicator if they like you or not. If she looks in your eyes directly and gives you special attention when you talk, then she probably does like you. When a woman talks softly and appears to you very feminine acting and treats you kindly might be a sign that she is digging your style. But in order for a woman to even consider you, look at yourself and determine that you are up to code. Meaning, your life is in order and things are going good. If you look like you are carrying excess baggage she won't be looking your way anyway.

If you want her to like you then you need to make sure that your personality shines every time you see her. If you know deep down you are no good to any woman, then change some things about yourself. The most important thing is to have self confidence always. But frankly, a confident girl will let you know she likes you to your face.

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