by Loralie Lynn

Created on: December 08, 2009

Keeping your sex life exciting and intimate is an important part of nourishing a healthy relationship. All too often, couples get caught up in the day to day routines of life and forget to tend to their own relationship's needs. Spicing up your sex life is vital to keeping your relationship strong and your bond to your partner close. Here are some tips for making your sex life more exciting so that you can give your relationship the attention it needs and the passion it requires to stay healthy.

Make sex a fun activity rather than seeing it as a chore. Sex is the key to a healthy loving relationship and when the excitement of sex becomes mundane, it's time to create fun in the bedroom again. Try being impulsive and pulling your partner close to you when he least expects it. Remember that feeling of passion you once had for each other when you couldn't keep your hands off one another. Instead of scheduling sex because it needs to be done, make time to have fun with sex and enjoy each other. Sex should never be a task you have to finish. It should be something intimate that two partners share that deeply love one another. Try to see sex as an exciting activity rather than something you are forced to make yourself do to please your partner.

Try having sex in new places to spice up your sex life. Many couples get used to having sex in the bedroom. Rather than plan the same place for sex all the time, try some place different. Make out on the couch like teenagers and embrace your lover on the furniture. Lay a blanket on the floor and make love next to a table full of candles. Draw a bubble bath for the two of you and have sex in a lust full of bubbly fun. Go parking with your partner and make love in the back seat of the car. Choose a different place each time you have sex to keep it exciting. Make a game of finding new places to make love and you'll soon find that your sex life is anything but dull.

Have more foreplay before sex to spice it up. Taking the time to please each other before doing the deed is a much more enjoyable experience. When couples fall into a sexual rut, they tend to want to finish sex quickly so they can return to doing whatever they need to do...which is usually sleep. Make sex more exciting by taking the time to explore each other. Kiss each other's bodies completely, give each other a massage, nibble your lover's ear, or even kiss for more than a few minutes. Passion comes from having fun with sex and exploring your love for each other.

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