by Lawrence George

Created on: December 01, 2009

Pleasing a man is not that different from pleasing a woman. We're all people and we all want to be adored! So here are some ways men will feel adored.

It is true that regular, exciting sex will please your man! So let's get that one out of the way first. Men love to feel wanted, love to feel desired, love to feel strong and powerful. You don't have to fool your man or pretend anything; you just have to do what you enjoy and learn that together. Surprise him with your sexiness and your sensuality - it will delight him utterly.

Men love to feel that their woman is devoted to them. They love that sense of dependence - it must be hardwired into us at an early stage of human development! Calling your man, texting him, sending him treats and cards - not all the time of course, or even regularly, but out of the blue, just to let him know you love him - will drive him wild with love for you.

Men love to think that their woman is nuturing. A good man will love a beautiful meal being cooked for - or with - him. If he doesn't, he is not worth pleasing. Cooking for someone is an act of love, and enjoying their efforts and their company is as well.

Men love to decide on dates for themselves. It appeals to the "being in charge" element of their natures. So, sometimes, tell your man to decide where you're going, or what you're doing - he will get a kick out of it, and he will enjoy trying to please you.

Men enjoy sports (often) and they appreciate a woman who lets them watch or play sports when they want to. Of course, any man who wants to hog the TV with non-stop snooker or something is selfish and needs to be ignored! But men hate being told that their woman "just can't watch that rubbish", especially if The X-Factor is on regularly in the house...

One of the reasons men will often abandon their woman for their mates is that men love to laugh. They love to feel free to discuss "boysie" stuff and to laugh uproariously. Women, to be fair, often have a more demure sense of humour than men. This is not to hint that women should suddenly discover their toilet-humour side, but to suggest that laughing together, freely and sometimes, maybe, at inappropriate things, will make him love you even more. The more he feels completely comfortable with you, the more he will love you. The more you can be his friend as well as his lover, the more you will bind him to you.

Men are more sensitive than many women think! And they want to be loved. Ultimately, anything which reassures a man that he is the sole object of his woman's desires will please him and will keep him yours.

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