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Saying "I love you" without the spoken word

by 1PD1

Created on: November 26, 2009

Saying "I love you" without the spoken word

I know what I feel for him and what he felt for me and still feels toward me. I feel what others cannot, and what others cannot ever understand. He and shared two intense years together, he cried many times when the racing and confusing thoughts caused him so much pain. He said I love many times with speaking a single word. I could see the feelings on his face, I could feel love in his touch, and I could feel the love in his tears. I know he loves me, even though he is not here to share the days with me, he cannot share a holiday, he cannot share a happy moments, and he cannot share family times and gatherings. Even though he is not here with me to say I love you, his words come to daily with the daily sunshine. At first I did not understand why he left behind all he owned, I did not understand why he simply walked on all we shared together. Love changes within the soul of a man, but his actions will speak volumes when words cannot be spoken; he said I love daily to me, without the spoken word. Actions speak louder than words is a saying that is so true, what is equally important is that those actions have to be understood by those they are directed toward. Men have a difficult time with the spoken words I love you, but within his soul, within his spirit he loves you, more than you can ever imagine. His actions are more important, than the spoken word, be able to understand what is being said in the actions that he performs. Examine the conviction of his actions, remember what is important to him, and look at what you have now that was once shared with him, and remember what you had that was also shared. A romantic relationship and the sharing of a love life, and all that life has to share with us with a loved one is love unspoken, many men cannot say the words I love you, but boundless love everlasting in their hearts and soul with the man or woman they fall in love with.

Remember that without the spoken words "I Love you" ..he still loves you, and you will still love him. He just has so many thoughts in his mind, the confusion and the pain in his mind makes the saying the words "I Love You" so difficult. You understand, his actions and you know actions always speak louder than words.

You said "I love you" without the spoken word to me daily during the two years we shared together. Even now that we are not together I know that you still love me, I have all the things of the life we shared. You choose to leave those things with me because you knew that I loved you no matter what, the things of your life are safe, and the things of our life shared are safe. Love spoken with no words, is a love everlasting. Your new life and your love isn't the same as ours, you shared so much with me, I will not forget the sincerity within your soul and spirit. Be safe and be happy, love can be spoken without saying I Love You....



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