by Ivanka Mogilska

Created on: November 18, 2009   Last Updated: November 21, 2009

Every little girl dreams of growing up and getting married, dressed in a white dress. Every little boy knows that when he grow up he must to be able to care for children and wife. Such are the laws of nature and man - if you don't have family, you cannot survive, nor create a strong and healthy generation.

But thanks to the progress of society, technology, quality of life, it appears that one can now survive alone, alone to care for himself and even create and raise a healthy generation alone. From a practical standpoint, in terms of daily activities and the provision of home and livelihood, a person no longer needs to live in couple.

Unfortunately, human emotional necessities are not changed almost at all the time in which all people have lived together in a cave. We all need to be loved and to love. As you are young, when left alone after a failed relationship, you think: "She / He just was not the right person for me." After five - six unsuccessful relationships, and time passes, you're going to ask: "What 's wrong? Why nobody likes me? Why nobody wants to stay with me?" And this is the first big mistake, the fear starts here - I'm not good enough, I'm not worthy, I am not handsome, not a catch. Always we need someone who can strengthen us, even knowing our price like professionals, to realize how good friends we are, if we are alone, there's always a slight doubt - what 's wrong with me?

If, however, you change your mind, you will understand that living with someone just because you're afraid to live alone is not worth it. It brings pain, disappointment and ultimately you would be alone again. So, you just start to live alone. Pretty soon you will find all the advantages that cannot comply with anyone and do anything you want. You will love it. However, when you meet someone, it will be very difficult to you to get rid of selfish habits, that are already created. Fear that you may start to like it so much that you forget that a couple is far better, although it's so nice to sit three hours in the shower in the bathroom without someone knocking on the door.

When you meet a friend from school on the street, he always appears to be married with at least one child, whose picture he carries in his wallet. He shows it to you. And of course, suggests that you will be happy to show him the picture you carry in your wallet. And you're forced to show him the picture of your dog. Over time, the eyes of people around you become more regretful. One of the biggest fears

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