by Nadie Gehring

Created on: November 18, 2009

Why woman cheat on their partners are for obvious reasons...they aren't getting it at home. Whether it be lack of intimacy in the form of sexual contact or that warm and continuous hugging and kissing that we all crave , want and need so much . Perhaps the attention alone is not being given and there for a woman will stray to where a man is paying attention to her in some form or another.

You can't simply be with someone and allow the intimacy to fade or die all together or your pushing your woman right into someone's arms and they won't be yours and they could be gone forever one day or they could find another and another fulfilling each lonely moment that you give them.

You have to get off your ass and continue to be as attentive as you were at the beginning of meeting . Maybe its you and the way you let yourself go over time that set her out the door into someone's arms. Perhaps you've put on to much poundage soaking up the beers and potato chips sitting there day after day watching your sports instead of going out dancing or even for a walk with your lady as you once did.

Time changes everyone in some way or another but it shouldn't change the way you feel inside towards your mate so much so that you let the intimacy die. When you do..the door becomes like a swinging one letting her go in and out as she pleases to another man because , well you don't give a crap about her enough to let her know you want her and desire her more then any other man.

You never know..maybe you let your sexual desires fade and your bedroom skills lapse and you just don't do it enough for her no more because you got that..oh it's your turn thing happening or the rushing threw it just so you can get it over with and go to sleep or go back to watching t.v ,either sports or movies or porn ..maybe even sitting on line with your face in front of your computer screen chatting with to many other women in this world that you don't have a hope of hell of meeting even but somehow, get your jollies off with them more then you do with your own woman.

The simple things like smiles and warmth and how was your day could send a woman into thinking you don't care. Not to mention nothing like trying to look at your man and find desire in him sitting there in the most ugly baggy jogging pants that are either way to big on him and hide that delicious looking ass you once had or still do but where it is under those ugly things who knows.

Day after rituals become boring when there is no attempt to light a spark in your woman's eyes. Take out a bottle of win or sparkling cider , a couple candles and set the mood . You don't have to go out dancing to dance with her. Put on the music , get your self looking handsome so that her eyes light up when she sees you and take the initiative to let her know you still give a dam about her and let the sparks fly . Be the first , don't always expect her to and soon it will be both ways as it once was leaving the doors closed to any other.

In other words make her turned on as she once was to you and keep it that way and your lady will be only yours .

While your at , don't hesitate to tell her nicely why you have lost interest in her if she's the reason why your libido has died and help her get it back to how you like it or what are you doing with her if it's just in plain English not there for you anymore.

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