by Marcie Maier

Created on: November 17, 2009

Let us not forget that the term "Lolita" has always been ascribed with an innocent connotation, and whether or not it also carries the title of "sexually promiscuous" is less certain. The name Lolita originated from a the book written by Vladimir Nabokov, which is about a man who finds young girls sexually attractive. However, upon reading this book, one realizes that it is the interpretation of the individual whether or not the "Lolita" mentioned is of a sexual nature; her innocence is always presumed and promiscuousness comes second, if at all.

Now, remembering the innocence of the subject matter, the Lolita look is by default cute. As many innocent things are cute, an innocent fashion trend resembles an untouched, uncorrupted portrayal of purity and cheer. The only thing a person could find "creepy" about innocence is the thought that others may find innocence as sexually attractive. It is important to keep in mind, however, that this creepy feeling is not being attributed to the Lolita look itself, only those who find it as a turn-on. It is the choice of the individual to be attracted to it in whatever way they so desire, but the Lolita look is innocent in nature and should be thought of that way.

Even if the viewer does not find an innocent, childish style as cute, they would at least not find it creepy. There is nothing unnerving, uncomfortable, or awkward about the idea of purity in attire. A main contention of those who oppose the Lolita look is that adult women find ways to fit the style, but also create an air of sexual desire. One must recall, however, that this is no longer the Lolita look; it is a variation created by individuals as fashion evolves. If it no longer carries an air of innocence, it is no longer the Lolita look. Adult women also have every reason to want to retain the "cute" appearance, as this often gives off signals of their personality. Women often want their fashion trends to reflect their personalities, and what kind of companions they seek. If they want companions who can appreciate a cute sense of innocence, it is strategic that they dress this way.

In conclusion, this debate is not coming down to whether the Lolita look is cute or creepy, but rather whether how some individuals choose to be sexually attracted to it, and how some individuals alter the original trend to transform the original message. These scenarios should be disregarded when evaluating the Lolita look.

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