by Candace Kelly

Created on: November 13, 2009   Last Updated: November 15, 2009

Many people are thrown into events that are life altering. Some decide to learn from their experience, while others become cynical. Truly wise individuals come in all shapes, sizes and ages. There are truly wise children and ignorant elders. There are wise elders, not because of their age, but because they have chosen to use their experiences as a life lesson, not a complaint. Let us discuss how to become more open and available to the wisdom that surrounds us.

Live life

In order to do this, we must live our lives as fully as possible. Involve yourself with what means the most to you, whether it is family, friends or volunteering for a cause. Each experience can be looked at for it's positives and negatives, but if you are able to learn something from the experience, then you will be all the wiser for it.

Choices

At one point in time, we are all faced with choices, what college to attend, what major, what husband or wife to marry and what state to live in. The list is endless, and can be quite daunting at times. How do we know if we are making the right choices?

It is important before making any choice or decision to bring it in prayer to God since he is the one who understands your path. Some choices cannot be fixed, but the attitude toward that choice can be changed. A path can always be altered. Ask God to help lead you in his direction and you will make the correct choice.

Knowledge Personal knowledge occurs when you see certain truths repeat themselves throughout your life and the lives of others. People who are truly wise are not quick to show off their knowledge. They are usually more reserved and hold a quality that people seek out. These are individuals that people are drawn towards. They are not pushy or quick to share what they know, unless asked directly. They have a passive magnetism.
Listen

Listen to other people and do not be quick to speak. Hearing others words can help us understand one another and increase wisdom.

How to pass down wisdom

Ideally, we would all come from wise families, but the reality is that this is not so. Some of us are blessed to have come from wise families, others feign wisdom to cover up inadequacies and low self esteem along with other family dysfunction. Be honest with your children, show them that they must respect you, but you must respect them as well. Don't be afraid to say you are sorry or admit you made a mistake. Your children need to realize their parents are human. Showing your children your misgivings

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