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How to be more attractive to women

by Annie Duncan

Created on: November 09, 2009   Last Updated: November 10, 2009

In general there are a few simple rules, but to get specific you have to know the woman you are trying to woo.

General rules are:

1. Value Women need to know they are valued for more than just a romp in the hay. What that means is as nice is it is to know that you are attracted to us physically, that you also recognize there is more to us.

2. Recognizing our need to nurture It is inborn in many of us just like your need to protect we need to nurture. It won't make you unmanly if you aren't always the tough guy. Actually trying to shut off your emotions and not let it show is a turn off to us. As much as we love your big strong arms around us when we are scared we need to kiss away your hurts too.

3. Our aversion to violence Okay, we will understand your need to watch wrestling or cheer at the guy slamming his opponent into the boards during a hockey game, but that is where it stops. We aren't into watching you in a bar fight or do we think you're tough even if it is to defend our honour.

4. Respect respect us and all women in general no hitting, calling names or pushing, even if it is about your ex who slept with your sister's boyfriend.

Now on to the specifics:

Women get better with time at picking a potential mate. What does that mean? The older we get the less superficial we become. So if you are going for the below thirty women, looks, money and power are all powerful aphrodisiacs to the female gender.

Attracting the under 30 women:

1. Taking care of the physical, work out those muscles.

2. Even if you don't have a good job yet at least is in the pursuit of one. If that means going to college to become a dentist we will be impressed.

3. Being the alpha male of your group. The guy that all other guys go to for advice and want to hang with.

Attracting woman over 30

1. Taking care of yourself physically, most women in this group may not mind the few extra pounds or if you aren't the buffest guy in the gym, or even if you go to the gym, but if you are spending Friday nights at the all you can eat buffets and Saturday nights on the couch with a bag of chips watching football we won't be so attracted.

2. Not afraid to take on the physical Even if you are a doctor or lawyer, nothing may be more attractive than a guy with his shirt off mowing the lawn or chopping wood or playing rugby rather than watching it.

3. Taking care of your personal appearance You don't have to have a head full of hair or be built like Arnold in the Terminator but if you come pick us up

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