by Hollywood James

Created on: November 03, 2009

It's no secret that one of the first things a man notices on a woman are her breasts. There's just no getting around it. A guy's eyes just naturally, instinctually look, picturing them naked, something that has to be accomplished in the blink of an eye before he gets caught looking. For me personally, it's not the fact that I was caught looking, it's the dirty, "how dare you be looking at my breasts" look that I get when our eyes meet. And heaven forbid if you get caught looking at woman's breasts when she has an uncontrolled nipple erection happening. Ladies, please keep in mind it's something men recognize as a precursor to having sex and of course we're going to look.

Now that we've established a rationale for constantly looking at your breasts, let's address the whole big breast vs. little breast controversy. Like the size of a man's penis a woman has no control over the size of her breasts...you get what you get and that's all you've got to work with so all you ladies out there with small breasts, stop being so self-conscious. In the world of boobs, bigger doesn't mean better. Of course, I can only offer my own personal view, but to all you big boob lovers out there...you're wrong and I'm right...small breasts are much, much better.

Something else that all you small-breasted women should be happy know is that as you age you're breasts will stay firmer and perkier longer than your big-breasted counterparts, at least that's been my experience. And the women you see in the X-rated videos or on the Internet, the ones with the implants, well they don't even move, they just sit there on her body, motionless like a big, round rock, which, for me at least, is not very attractive.

Another thing you small-breasted women out there need NOT be concerned about is your lack of cleavage. Cleavage is useless. You can't do anything with it.

So be happy with your small breasts. Never be embarrassed about them or feel physically inferior to your big-breasted rivals or think you're not as sexually appealing because number one it's not true and number two it's not as important as the world wants you to think it is and it's really a waste of your time to worry about it.

So this takes us back to the beginning of the article. In a lot of advertising, magazines, commercials, and movies the majority of the women have fairly large breasts which are tanned, covered with Vaseline, and sprayed with water to make them appear like they're all sweaty, and whatever they're wearing is two sizes too small, and their cleavage is showing...all techniques to get you to look. So the next time a man looks at your breasts remember he's been programmed by society to do that, so enjoy the attention and take his lustful look as a compliment.

Learn more about this author, Hollywood James.
Click here to send this author comments or questions.