Moving past the feeling of being lost in life is more a matter of getting through life without seeing any loss as a loss. Being lost in life is a matter of getting through life without seeing the being lost, as a loss.
Why is it that life always seems to be too complicated?
Things go wrong, people don't honour their obligations, things don't work as they are expected to, or maybe not as good as they should do.
Jokingly the joke is not the joke, but it is always only you seeing the joke that makes it a joke or funny for you, and so it is with life. If you see life as difficult, it is difficult. See life as complicated, and it is complicated. Life itself is very simple. All you need ever do is to follow love, and do the most loving thing as the next thing, and forget about all other considerations. Allow love to move in you, and so you then will move along with it.
Why do we become so angry at being lost, and from not knowing what to do? Why are we seeing the things that go wrong as life working against us, rather than for us?
Growing into a perspective viewing of truth, takes many other viewings of non truth to take place first. These mistakes are not really mistakes, but more just us seeing what is being seen from a mistaken viewpoint. A mistaken viewpoint is seen when anger distorts our viewing. Mistakes are simply not happening. Only the perfect transmission of love goes on at all times.
A mistake is only a fullness of emptiness when you are not looking at the emptiness as still being a fullness. When you see mistakes not as frustrations, but as other people struggling as well, all becomes a matter of knowing that mistakes are not mistakes, but mainly only simply an error of judging them to be so.
All really does seem lost at various times in our lives though.
How can we ever move past this depressive deceptive mindset to re-embrace life from love again?
Love brings new insights to the truth living in you as you, simply because the truth has gotten lost in you from you looking for it in places where it not so much isn't, but where it is more only now being overlooked consciously because you want other things. You want things, and for the truth to bring you these things.
You only want the truth to serve you and show you how to acquire things to fulfil your own wants. This feeling of not obtaining our wants is what equates in us as a feeling of loss or being lost.
The way that it really works however is for truth to come first, and this then removes the want, and then magically the want or the life requirement is then fulfilled for you being now perfectly manifested from the new perspective viewing of this old truth. The old truth has now been made new from being seen consciously from truth, rather than unconsciously and from only wanting something from your ego.
It is because we do not love ourselves properly that we lose ourselves so easily
If we feel lost in our life is it because we don't know how to love our self. How do we find ourselves, and also find God?
Being lost is losing your connection to yourself as soul. It's really about losing out to your ego. Your ego is in charge, and the lost feeling is in the lost connection to your soul. The connection is always of course still there, and you know this, but it feels lost because your ego wants to operate you all of the time. The only answer to the ego is to bring your heart back into the picture. Love of yourself is love of you as soul, and this is achieved for you by you dropping your ego.
The ego has to be dropped to allow your soul and heart to run things again. The effect of your ego is lessened when you eventually feel enough of the pain, the separation, the lack of love, the missing of happiness, and the lack of a contented fulfilment arising in you from this allowing of your ego to be in charge. Because of these lost feelings you will then begin to realise that this approach to life is not working for you, and so you will then drop it in order to see what else there could be that might in fact work better for you.
The sleeping connection to your soul and heart will then be rekindled, or fired up and you will never look back again after that. Your soul will take its proper position on its true path again, and you will move forward with joy, and your ego will then watch and learn through observation and acceptance of its own rightful position.
Your ego is dropped by your soul and heart to allow the development in you of a renewed feeling in you of going only ever forwards towards life. Life is the ability to love from your soul into other life forms and so to reach other souls. You need this external linkage to achieve an experienced sharing of this love. The ego wants to reward itself from loving, and this shows its immaturity. The ego is the outer part of your soul and the ego is the part of your soul that is learning experiencing and recognising better the benefits of listening to its full soul and its original part of itself.
The ego is newly created in you for each incarnation, and your old ego returns to the consciousness pool of all combined souls. The ego passes on all of its experiences to your soul before this happens of course, and your soul in its next incarnation has grown that much more perfect in its own wisdom. Perfection is always growing towards greater perfection from its infinite scope of its creation in the infiniteness of the unconsciousness of God.
Consciousness is created only from the birth of each ego, and has increased during every incarnation of each soul. Consciousness in this way is ever growing and increasing as a pool of itself that is generally known or referred to as cosmic or God consciousness. And all souls can link into and benefit from this creation of themselves for themselves.
We are never lost when re-connect to our true selves, to God and to other souls from love. We have access to the greater consciousness pool of all wisdom as it currently exists for us to dip into at any time that we want to.
When all seems lost, all we need ever do is to start to love more, and to love who we are in this grander scheme of all things. We are never lost, and nothing is ever missing. All is happening in the best possible way. Nothing has ever gone wrong. All is only ever perfect within God's perfect kingdom. It is perfect for us to when we rejoin his kingdom, and forget about being lost within or without it in any other way.
When we love, we find ourselves being loved. We are never lost within this infinite love that is defining and honing us to an even greater perfection each and every day. No soul are ever lost, and all play their own part perfectly for them even now. Nothing needs ever to be added, and nothing taken away. We grow from growing, and all else are growing with us.
Loss is more about gain than it is ever about real loss. Nothing is ever lost when you learn from all and from every one of your life experiences.