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Oh, the pleasures of sex. Teen boys cannot think of anything else. To hear them speak, you'd think they'd slept with every girl in the village. In reality, they've not even had a sniff. Teen girls, on the other hand, are thinking about whether they are ready for it or whether they should keep themselves for that someone special. There is so much pressure. If only they knew what the future holds!

After a few decades of sex, it loses its initial appeal to some extent. From lust, we start to look for love. And then the problems start. So what can go wrong?

1. You feel obliged to continue the quantity you enjoyed in your younger years. The quality suffers as a result. It becomes a chore, not something you look forward to the moment you get in the door from work.

2. She holds back and only offers sex in exchange for the way you treat her. You resent it and a barrier grows between you. She equates sex to love. You equate it to your male needs.

3. She talks to her friends about your performance and your attributes or otherwise. Women loves laughing about their chaps. Chaps hate their women talking about them to her mates. Your mind starts playing tricks when you get into bed.

4. You caught a sexually transmitted disease on the one occasion you strayed. You feel so guilty and have to make excuses to avoid sex with your partner for a while until you are cured. But it's never the same again. Moral of the tale - don't stray.

5. You let her down during one session by not being able to perform. It plays on your mind for a very long time. She tries to tell you it's alright, but you know it isn't really and she was disappointed.

6. She complains you always have a good time but never pay attention to her needs. She hates it when you just roll over and go to sleep. She wants a cuddle, but you think, 'What's the point? I'm tired.' She thinks you're selfish. But it isn't your fault God made you and her differently. She hates the fact you always get fulfilment and she rarely does. And you never whisper sweet nothings to her.

7. After years with the same person, it is hard to pretend you find each other sexy. The desire and urges you had in your younger years abate anyway. But with the same person it's not easy to keep up your desires.

8. She whispers your best mate's name. When she says she was joking, you;re not sure. She's either a good liar or she was joking - but why would you joke during sex?

9. The kids walk in on you just as you are reaching an interesting point. 'Daddy,

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