by Leslie Moon

Created on: October 30, 2009

Applying the verse "Let not the sun go down upon your wrath," in our daily lives

Everyone has days where anger or frustration spills into their lives. Like the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back, stress bears down on one's life . The end result -an outburst of anger. Anger is expressed differently. Some people quietly rage, others throw things, some storm about slamming things for effect, while others may verbally lash out at the person crossing their path.

The Bible gives good advice in dealing with anger. We are encouraged to be slow to anger. That means there are times when anger is appropriate. It also implies, if we are slow to anger, we won't have a wasteland to clean-up after our anger has subsided. Slow to anger also suggests keeping emotions in control. Everyone can benefit from self-control when they are stressed over their limit.

Now ,however, I am in a situation where I have gotten angry. I exploded at someone I care about. What next.?Human nature would pull me away from dealing with the situation.Time heals all wounds right? Wrong! In Old Testament culture, the sun going down meant the day had ended and a new day was beginning. There is wisdom in taking care of a situation on the same day that it commenced. Tomorrow things may get in the way; those affected by your anger may be insulted that the problem wasn't addressed promptly. Children when they hurt another child are asked to say "sorry" on the spot. Adults who wait for the "dust to settle" are asking for hurt feelings and perhaps more trouble.

When the sun goes down (implying the end of the day), you are more tired and irritable not wanting to discuss sensitive issues. After the sun has gone down and you are tired, the worst thing you can do is have a discussion. That discussion could result in emotions leading to more anger. Wait to discuss the situation when you are fresh and composed. If it is a loved one, tell them that you would like to set a time for discussion then they are aware you want to deal with the situation.

God's word is full of wisdom. I f you are angry, deal with the anger before the sun goes down. Go to the spiritual source of forgiveness so that you will have strength to put the anger behind you. No matter who you have offended, your anger has offended God. Ask for Him to forgive you. He will listen to your plea for help anytime - day or night. He will also give you strength to seek the forgiveness of others.

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