by Samantha Scott

Created on: October 29, 2009

How To Get The Best from A Reading.

I have been asked to write today about how to achieve the best from your readings. So many people are now turning to me for spiritual guidance that I feel it is important for you to know that you are able to improve the quality of your own readings. However as I always say to my clients, the messages given will be what you need to hear or know right now in life, not necessarily what you want to hear!

Firstly, I would say don't pay out for a reading unless you feel you really need one, there is an anniversary of a passing, a birthday or you are just feeling completely drawn. When this happens it is because spirits have something they wish to share with you. Readings that serve a purpose rather than those that are simply to fill in time are always far more productive. I also advise people not to beg and plead for a certain deceased relative to come through as this neediness is a negative energy and can in fact make the linkage difficult to achieve. Relax. Know that the best person for your situation will step forward whoever they are.

So how should you prepare yourself? Well I always say allow your intuition to lead you to the right reader. Go to the one that you feel drawn to rather than let price and availability make your decision for you. Decide before making the call the area of life that you would like to initially focus on, this helps the reader to achieve a stronger link with your own energy and relax. I like to work to a question such as 'what is coming up for me in my intimate relationships?' or 'why am I going through this particular situation?'. Make sure you won't be disturbed during the reading and switch off your phone and any music you have playing. This is to allow the energy to flow beautifully between you and the reader. Skype is a wonderful way to get a reading whether it is through skype chat or skype text but when using skype chat please remember that the reader is using your voice to empower his or her link to the spirit world.

Which moves me on to how to 'behave' to get the best out of your readings. Many people think that by remaining silent or not letting on if the medium is giving correct information that they are being clever somehow. As if it is their role to test the medium. I can understand that some people are looking for the proof but I must point out that this kind of behaviour actually is negative and creates a block. A wall as it were which can make it difficult for the medium to connect

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