by Betty Blake

Created on: October 21, 2009   Last Updated: October 28, 2009

Experts have revealed that the divorce rates in the United States are increasing rapidly. It is estimated that about 50% of marriages are culminating divorces. Divorce is a very stressful and challenging process for everyone involved. First of all, there is the death of a relationship. Coupled with that, the uprooting of a family. If there are kids, a couple will have to think of child support. Divorces can cause financial ruin to many.

Marriage counselors have suggested that if a couple is going through tough and challenging times in their marriage, they still love each other and wish to make it work; they should incorporate some strategies. It is imperative that before the marriage becomes unrecognizable that you try to utilize the following steps:

OPEN COMMUNICATION

Without communication, an insignificant problem can escalate into a serious one. The only way you can know what is on each other's mind is to share your feelings. Honesty is very essential. Do focus and listen attentively to each other. Sometimes, it is good to speak with a mature couple who has been "around the block". This couple would be able to give you advice on how to handle certain issues that may arise, as quite likely, they have gone down that road. If things are still unresolved, perhaps, it is time to seek out the services of a marriage counselor.

KEEP THE ROMANCE ALIVE

Within any relationship, balance is vital. Many couples tend to "drop the ball" when they tie the knot. Do remember that your spouse is priority. Experts have advised that you should put each other first, then you would be able to function better at being parents. In fact, studies have shown that when parents are happy, it shows in their performance in the workplace. Some ways to keep the sizzle in your marriage are:

*Have a date night once per week. Hire a sitter and actually go out and have some fun like when you were dating.

*Physical connection is very essential as it aids in keeping you bonded to your partner. Do cuddle, touch and kiss as often as possible.

*When you met your spouse, more than likely, you were attracted by their physical attributes. Find time to keep active and healthy for both of you. It keeps you agile and attractive.

*Be creative in the love arena. Maybe, once in a while you can change location. Grab a hotel room for the week-end or night and rekindle that passion and excitement that you may have lost.

*Have fun; sometimes, it is the little things that count.

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