by Joyce M. George-Knight

Created on: October 17, 2009   Last Updated: October 18, 2009

How to please your woman? Okay, men, hold down the laughter. That is a loaded question. It's also an extremely important one, because the contentment in your marriage or relationship depends upon it. To some men, this would be the most mind-boggling question one could ask. Granted, every woman is different, but basically we are all the same. We each want to know that we are special to our partner.

There are too many men who show indifference toward the feelings of their woman. The man that can put aside his wants, long enough to question his woman's feelings, is a gem. You are the sensitive man that every woman would love to have for a partner.

Now, to answer the question. The simple thing would be to ask her, "How can I please you?" Undoubtedly, few men will do so, but if they did, there would be less hurt feelings, raging hormones and tears. And men, you hate those raging hormones that don't always make sense to you. Look at your inquiry the same way you would if you had a vehicle that wasn't operating correctly. You car doesn't have all of its needs satisfied. Wouldn't you check every aspect of the engine right through to the exhaust pipe to locate its problems? Your woman expects no less consideration for her desires. After all, she will be faithful to you for years after that vehicle has reached the dump.

Men are notorious for not be observant of changes or details. In this case, men, keep your eyes and your ears open. Listen for the clues dropped as a "by the way" kind of item. "Some day perhaps we can eat at that restaurant." "Joan's husband made her breakfast in bed. How sweet and thoughtful he was." "Would you come with me to the craft sale?" Chances are your woman will be at your side when you want to attend the auto show or antique car display. So why would you balk at being at her side for the craft show? It's a give situation on the part of both partners.

Just in case it needs to be spelled out, tell her "I love you." Women need to hear these words. Yes, she should already know it; after all, you are her partner. Men, it doesn't matter. Your woman yearns to hear you whisper, shout gleefully or sing those three words to her. Tenderness is good for the soul. Some humor doesn't hurt either. In fact, humor presented in a positive way, gives a uniqueness to your relationship. It's a communication that only the two of you share. Women enjoy things such as this.

Most importantly is the fact that you care to be tuned in to your partner's desires. There is little doubt that you will be most successful. And your woman will, indeed, be pleased.

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