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Wanting what you cannot have

why is it that as soon as you find yourself settled, or so we think, that you end up craving another person? is it to see if we still have our powers as women to get what we want? to prove a point or because we are scared that we now have relationships! you know who I'm talking about, he's the one you had a fling with a few years ago, you really liked him and thought about him all the time, it drove you mad that you didn't have super natural powers and could read his mind!does he like me, what does he think about me rubbish. Then you end up meeting a really nice man/women whatever your fancy, everything you have been moaning to your friends about not having, then smack bang in the face, you see the person you once desired so much again and all those feeling you forgot about or choose to ignore is back and once again driving you insane! is this a problem that other people have in relationships, why are we never happy at what we have? and why an earth would we want to become a bunny boiler again. My feelings on this subject is either we are completely mad or do we have a sixth sense that maybe this person is the one we are designed to be with! and therefore have to see if it's worth bothering with.Maybe in the end it's worth looking at what we have before we let ourself run away with what if this and what if thats. Even if they did confess that they had never stopped thinking about us, would it last? would it be worth dumping the good relationship? but then again, what if?

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