by Karen Travis

Created on: September 26, 2009

A mother can influence her daughter's self-image by teaching her from birth on up! To start with, you must know your daughter, for example, what her likes and dislikes are and how she reacts emotively in different situations. Every person is different and that makes us all unique. Allow your daughter to blossom by allowing her to be herself.

Self-image isn't just about your outward appearance but also includes how one feels about oneself. Encouragement is a key element in teaching one to have a positive self-image. Setting the example is the best way of teaching your daughter on how to present herself. Building her self-esteem is also an important step.

Begin by allowing her to choose some of her own style of clothing. Encourage her to be particular in what and how she chooses. Teach her the difference between appropriate and non appropriate clothing. Gently encourage her from a toddler on up. Be careful not to influence her too much as to stamp out her style. Take her window shopping and discuss styles with her as you go. Later as she is old enough for make-up, teach her how to apply it properly. Take her to a make-up artist, or take a class together on how to properly apply make-up. You may play 'dress-up' with her while she is still young. Younger children love the lip gloss. Teach her in steps according to her age and your beliefs.

Encourage her to learn about and explore life. If she has a particular interest in an area . . . buy her some books on it or take a trip to discover more about her interest. For example, if she is interested in the ocean and the critters within, take her to the ocean and find museums of interest. Purchase books or go to the library and check out books on the subject. Encourage her exploration by making available ways for her to explore and learn.

Share quality time with your daughter. Let her know it is okay to come to you and talk with you about anything. Keeping a close bond opens the door wider for you to influence her. As mother's we begin influencing our children as soon as they are born. We show them love and care. We teach them right from wrong. Children are copycats. Setting an example shows them in many ways how they should carry themselves through life. If you do the opposite from what you teach them, then they will follow suit. We learn through examples. Guide her as she grows through various interactions with her as listed above or through other means. The old saying, 'children live what they are taught', is very true.

Be a supportive parent, encourage them, guide them and most of all, love them. A mother naturally influences her children by the way she sets an example and by what she teaches them.

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