by Bryan Coates

Created on: September 23, 2009   Last Updated: October 07, 2009

Wouldn't it be nice if everyone you bought gifts for told you what they wanted, instead of saying, "You don't have to get me anything"? Ironically, when you ask someone what they want for Christmas, it is a time when you wish they would be less polite and just tell you what they want. As everyone does, you probably buy gifts for people who have very picky and specific tastes. This can become tricky. However, there are a few gifts to stay away from and a few that are always a safe purchase.

Having worked in retail for several years, I am aware that clothing is a dangerous gift. Unless you are comfortable giving someone clothing, you want to stay clear. When giving clothing as a gift, it can often be tricky because you need to know the person's size. If you go either way - too large or too small, you risk the possibility of insulting the person you are trying to be nice to. You also need to be aware of the person's style and sense of fashion. If you know neither the correct size nor style, then your gift runs a very high risk of being returned post holiday season. If you are very close to the person to whom you wish to give a gift, clothing can be an appropriate option. A child or spouse, for example, are people whose sizes and styles you should be aware of.

As a former Barnes & Noble music department manager, I know that DVDs and CDs are also some of the most returned gift items. It is important to know the gift receiver's preferences. Take for example the high school girl who takes ballet. You would most likely not purchase her a copy of the latest action blockbuster, but perhaps something that involves dancing. In a growing age of technology, it is also hard to foresee what kind of viewing/listening devices someone is using today; so your gift may be null and void the minute you purchase it. If you are unsure about the preferences of the gift receiver, a gift card is always a safe option (and usually it cannot be returned!); it allows them to pick something that they will truly enjoy.

Children are a lot easier to purchase gifts for. They are easily entertained and gifts are always appreciated. When purchasing gifts for young adults, ask about the things that they need. It would be nice if everyone could have a running gift registry, the same as a wedding registry, which could be left open until you decide to close it. That way, every year for your birthday and Christmas, people could have a look at your registry and see exactly what it is that you need.

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