by Barbara Kasey Smith

Created on: September 23, 2009

How do you know when enough is enough in a relationship?

*Is your relationship good or bad?:

A good relationship can turn into a bad relationship when one or the other partner is rude, controlling, abusive, name-caller, and mistreats their partner regularly for "no" apparent reason. Many times a partner will bite their tongue and pay "no" attention to their mate when they flare up at them or appear to get mad about every little thing. People are human and "no" one wants to be spoken to in a hateful and abusive manner. All people deserve to be respected and treated in a nice manner.

There is "no" reason on this earth for a person to be talked down to and treated like they are "nothing." A person can only take so much abuse until they will start to form a get-even temper. They'll also get to the point where they do not want to be around their mate at any point in their relationship. When a person looses respect for their mate, the relationship might as well end it, because once you loose respect for a person, "nothing" can cause the person to regain their respect for that person.

When a person is abused or disrespected on a daily basis, their mate will get to the point, "Hey, why am I staying here, he/she doesn't care anything about me or I'm not taking this abuse and disrespect another day. It's my belief, when a person has had enough, it's enough and they're ready to get on with a better life. Human beings have feelings, have a heart, and deserve to be shown love and compassion at all times. The nice comments and good treatments are not wanted when their mate is wanting something from them or wants them to do something for them.

*People who abuse are insecure, self-centered, and controlling freaks:

People who abuse their mates are nothing but insecure, self-centered, and controlling freaks and they do not deserve a mate. There are too many people in this world who are living with abusers and controllers and their lives will never get any better because their mate likes the fact that they can cut you down and treat you as they want to.

*Summation:

Readers, if you are in a situation like the above, it's time you walk out the door and never look back. You have a life to live and you deserve to be treated with respect, compassion and understanding. Do not ever live your life with someone who mistreats you in anyway...life is short and this life can be great when we live it in peace and with happiness. Step back and analyze your life and if your living a miserable life because of someone's abuse...get out!

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