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How to find out if s/he really loves you
Article Toolsby Josh Hatcher
Communication is clearly the key in relationships.
From the beginning, we need to be upfront and open with each other.
Games are not acceptable. Don't buy into the lie that if you "test" him or her you will be able to tell if he or she loves you.
Just ask. And observe.
Love is patient, and kind, and not self serving, and isn't proud or haughty.
If he is all about pleasing himself, or if she is not kind, or more concerned about herself than you, than it is not love.
A more appropriate question, is to find out of you really love that person.
Understanding that love is not a feeling. Love is an action.
It's not how you feel, it's what you do.
It's doing acts of kindness for that person.
It's giving up things you want to provide things that he wants
It's intimate friendship. It's a choice to put the other person first.
It's not a fluffy bunny hug.
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