by Eleanor Blythe

Created on: September 18, 2009   Last Updated: September 23, 2009

With hectic work schedules and unending extracurricular activities, parents and children are busier than ever. As time spent away from home increases, it becomes a challenge to develop friendships on the streets where we live.

After a long day, it is tempting plop down in front of multiple hundreds of cable television channels. Or perhaps the computer beckons, with dozens of Facebook friends. Regardless of the distractions, nothing beats over-the-fence conversations with people who live nearby. Putting a face with a name and house number is important. Actually shaking hands is important. Meeting and greeting fellow citizens is an age-old tradition that transforms clusters of structures into warm and friendly communities. Although we no longer ban together for "barn raisings", we can and should ban together for enjoyment and protection. Neighborhoods become safer places to live when people know each other and look out for one another.

If you have questions like, "How can I jump-start my neighborhood friendships?" and "How can I help develop my community's friendly-factor?", and "How can I help develop a welcoming subdivision?" then read ahead. It takes a motivated person to get the ball rolling, but soon others will hop onboard. Don't be shy! There are some easy, tried-and-true methods for cultivating friendships and improving the social aspects of neighborhoods.

The Block Party

Just the words alone can cause an excited buzz around the neighborhood. Put your event organizing skills to work and create a block party. It is the perfect way to rally neighbors. The National Night Out website can help with loads of ideas. Cordon off your street and set out the tiki lights! Haul out the barbecue grills and lawn chairs. Ice down a cooler and bake cookies. But you can't do it all alone.

First, count the houses around your block so that you can create invitations. Pick a date - Friday and Saturday nights work well - and use your computer to make fun and fanciful flyers to place on neighbor's doors. Include your name, phone number, and email address. Be sure and ask people to help. Follow up and knock on doors. Have people sign up to provide drinks and refreshments. Put the guys in charge of charcoal and hamburgers. Put the gals in charge of desserts and potato salads. You may have to take on the role of community organizer, but the neighbors in your subdivision will follow.

The Homeowner's Association

Your homeowner's associations (HOA) is more than just an annoying

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