by Saba Huda

Created on: September 17, 2009   Last Updated: September 18, 2009

Sometimes we build a strong fondness for a person and can't forget about him/her even hours after meeting. We keep thinking about him/her all day long and then ask ourselves am I in love? What is happening to me? Why am I thinking about him/her. Constant thoughts keep running in the mind about a single person and we can't decide why is it happening this way but it's very difficult to find the difference between true love and strong infatuation.

There are a few signs to know whether its true love or not:

#When at the beginning of the day you are filled with the thoughts of the other person,what is he/she doing,what he/she is doing,what could you do to make him/her smile, sharing about the day with him/her,you wish that the time that you spend with him/her keeps increasing,you always feel being by his/her side. You always want to be with him/her.

#You become selfless and start thinking what can you do to make him/her happy. Always think of ways to see him/her happy but by being selfless and demanding the other person what he/she doesn't want to do willingly. Accepting the other person the way he/she is.

#You start thinking about always being with the other person and relish the idea of always being with that person come what may...you always think of being with that person all your life.

# You fully commit with that person and no matter what you never find anyone else attractive anymore.You feel a sense of loyalty and belongingness for that person and never want to loose him/her.

# You always have the fire burning within you even if you have spent more than a year with him/her. Whenever he/she sits beside you, you feel the fire still burning within you.

# You always build on the relationship in spite of having huge arguments with him/her, you don't want to loose him/her at any cost. You love him/her no matter what and become a big dreamer.

#You build better understanding with each other every single day and have admiration and respect for each other. You miss each other when you are away and want each others company most of the time and feel that you need each other support.

These are the signs that can help you decide that you are in true love with some one totally.

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