by Barbara Stanley

Created on: September 16, 2009

For teens: How to tell if a girl likes you

Teenage girls use their friends to assist them in getting a boy's attention. If you see a particular group of girls always hanging around where you spend time, chances are, there is a girl in the group who thinks you are the answer to her Prince Charming fantasy. If there is giggling, whispering, and sometimes, pointing, whenever you pass by or you are in their area, try to pick out the one who appears embarrassed and does not look directly at you. This is the one who is crazy about you.

A teenage girl will attend all your sports events, sitting up front and cheering everything you do. She will manipulate others to ensure she sits next to you during assembly, pep rallies, plays, or other events during school hours. Young teens will send notes by their friends to ask if you are interested in them. A simple, "yes" or "no" answer to a single question is involved. All teens try to avoid public rejection, girls as well as boys. Sometimes, girls will get their friends to "start rumors" about the fact that they are crazy about a certain boy. It isn't a rumor, guys, it's the truth. You can act on it.

Girls who are a little braver or more mature, will ask a guy if he wants to be her lab partner, special project partner, or offer to tutor him in a subject she knows he is having difficulty with. In a group of mostly unpaired teens at a school dance or other event, a girl will "accidentally" trip over something and fall against a guy she likes in hopes that he will catch her. She will definitely stay close to a guy she likes all night. Teenage girls give themselves away by giggling, blushing, actively flirting, touching their hair too much, and staring.

Young women: How to tell if a young woman is interested

Maybe there is a pretty lady that works in your office, building, or general workplace that you would love to ask out on a date, but just cannot be sure she is interested in you. Look for the clues. There are things young women do to show interest and specific things they do to show they have absolutely no interest. If a young woman finds you interesting and attractive, she will greet you warmly every morning and give you a sexy smile. She will bring you small gifts from home after you have worked together for awhile, such as homemade brownies, a bowl of gumbo that you mentioned you liked during a conversation, or pen for your pocket that "doesn't leak".

Interested women will laugh at your jokes, find opportunities to be in

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