by Estenio Modira

Created on: September 14, 2009

Cheating is something that been going on for years. The older generations call it "adultery" and the younger generation broke it down to the term "cheating", for the simple fact they see it as a game. Some people do it because of the thrill they get from not getting caught, others do it simply for the pleasure. Bottom line is IT'S WRONG.Though it might be wrong, if you sit back and think about it, it really isn't THAT bad.

See, when a person becomes a victim of adultery, they feel hurt because their trust have been used and thrown away like toilet paper. But look at it this way, it's simply an indication telling you that either you haven't been loving yourself to the fullest or that person isn't right for you. Now, would you want the REAL love of your life cheating on you or the impostor cheating on you showing you that he/she is the impostor? As long as you know you've been doing a good job and been faithful, then it shouldn't hurt you and it becomes a lesson for the other to learn. Now with that being said, that gives you complete power in choosing whether there should be a second chance. Because 9 times out of 10, they WILL come crawling back.

I've been cheated on a number of times, one including engagement. It seems that after they realize what they've done, they ask for forgiveness. Forgiving should always be given but accepting the cheater back in your life is done at your own risk. It is said that a thief is always a thief, and that also goes for a cheater is always a cheater. These are things to look for but not limited to: their phone locked with a password, lost love, mysterious disappearance, too much excuses, no eye contact while talking, new friends of the opposite sex, less attention, less sexual interest and many more. A man gets caught easier than a female because females plan. Usually, a man gets caught with the other female. Sad isn't it?

So basically, cheating is nothing more than your mate telling you he/she is not satisfied. It's the effect of the signs that been telling you they're unhappy. Some say what goes around comes around, and I would like to add on to that. What ever you give out to this world comes back to you ten times rolled over. So when you cheat on someone, your punishment will be ten times of that magnitude. Think about that before you start cheating, and if you think I'm wrong then maybe you should see the outcome yourself. And for all of my faithful ones, you have more power than you think. I urge you to use it.

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