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Created on: September 11, 2009
Sit down and watch it with him!
First of all, ladies lets stop lying to ourselves! We enjoy sex just as much if not more than men, but we get into what society says is, proper behavior for women. The thing about what society says is proper is not going to keep you warm when you and societies snotty notations on porn runs your man into the arms of another!
Porn is like anything else we have in the world, some good and some bad, and just like anything else we can do too much of any one thing. Good clean porn can be used as a stimulus to your sex life. Clean porn can touch the two of you techniques that will help to heighten your sex life and the understanding of each others bodies and on the same hand there are such things as too much! If every time he gets in the house, he is popping in a porn flick, then he needs to back up a little, but once a week or so, you need to be right there with him.
There are many people whom think when you say porn this will mean that there are children, animals and bondage and as I stated in another article, that is not porn but it is illegal and stupid. If you have a mate whom wants to watch illegal and stupid porn, then I suggest that you pack a few things and RUN, because just as some people like to do what they see in clean porn, stupid porn will sometime have the person wanting to try what they are looking at. What people find hard to understand is that porn is an art form that humans and their dirty mind changed porn into shameless, tasteless garbage. There is nothing wrong with clean porn in the privacy of your home.
Does he have a collection, if so once in awhile go through it and pick your favorites and send the kids to your mother and have a few of your favorites out when he gets home. Sex is something that two people should be able to share with one another and that include clean porn.
Many women says that men watch porn because he is wishing he had a woman that would do the things they see in the movies, well I say, woman should watch porn to make men think that we are wishing that we had the man in the movies! One or two things is going to happen, either he is going to stop watch the porn as much or you is going to be in for one hell of a sex life, because he is going to be trying to prove that he is all the man you will ever need.
So from time to time sit down and watch a little porn with your man. If there is something that makes you uncomfortable, tell him, because that the main thing, never do or watch anything that makes you uncomfortable and the two of you should have an understanding, other than that don't knock it until you try it!
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