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Created on: September 08, 2009
People often tell lies. It is one of those qualities that make human most dangerous social animal. Some time lies can be for good cause but not always. People use their power of intelligence, imagination and expression to cook endless creative lies. Many lairs are too confident to make fool of others. But they can't forget the fact that society is not made up of dumb mechanical objects. If there is any action, it has opposite reaction also. There is a constraint that everyone can't be cross-checked with lie detector. Hence many of them can get away easily from innocent eyes and emotional hearts. But a smart and intelligent mind can definitely read their indications and make out their real intentions which might help to catch them red handed.
Body language and facial expressions interpret lot of details. A person can be dishonest and try to act very normal while hiding something internally in mind and telling lie from outside. During this double-dealing activity, overall changes and differences of expressions vary from person to person. But lair's body movement and facial expressions can deviate from normal ones. Voice tone plays important role in matching up with the truth. Lair's tone changes all of a sudden while cross- examining the matter into more depth. Their explanations may have gaps of incidents. To fill those, they try to be over-expressive and hide the factual stuff. Liar unnecessarily tries to explain unwanted things and make false details more descriptive to look like real as compared to genuine and true information.
Liars avoid those points which they want to override in order to fulfill their personal interest. Eye contact can discourage the person from indulging in such unpleasant incidents. Some are just like real time actors. If they have self-confidence, they smartly tell lies openly in true manner without even losing eye contacts. Professional lairs cook brilliant stories and make hundred of excuses to hide the truth. Some people even try to blame and confer their own mistakes on other innocent heads. While doing so, real culprits act very smartly and leave very little room of suspect. These types of regular lairs are always in search of innocent victims to frame the charges just to accomplish few personal gains.
When a small child tells any lie, it seems very cute. The child plainly tells it without thinking any worldly or materialistic element in mind. It can create fun and sweet moments. But the scene is just reverse when same child
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