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Teen advice: Things your girlfriend won't tell you

by Alexis Tribble

Created on: September 08, 2009

Deep down, inside every girl - no matter what age - are dirty little secrets. Guys, the cold, hard truth; get used to it. There are some things a girl just needs to keep to herself.

She will not tell you her secret desire to marry you and have your children. She's probably already got the names already picked out, and there's a place set for the wedding.

Your girlfriend will never tell you about the Playboy collection she found under your bed. No matter how much she hates it.

She'll never tell you about her fantasies with her celebrity crush, and it's probably because she is scared to hear yours. However, if she already knows your celebrity crush, she won't tell you how hard she tries to be just like her. She just wants to impress you.

She hates when you forget to call, but she'll never say anything or she'll try her best to make a joke about it and hope you get the hint. She wants to feel important, not like she's forgotten.

She won't tell you how good she thinks she looks, instead she'll complain. This is not to drive you nuts, as much as you think it is. She wants to know if you see what she sees, and she wants to hear you compliment her, it makes her feel good.

She will not tell you what she wants for her birthday or a holiday. Girls love gifts, don't fall for her "I just want you" line. She really wants a gift ;she is just doesn't want to seem greedy. Once you get her a gift, she won't want you to know how much she's bragging to her best friend about how much she loves it.

Speaking of friends, she wont tell you how much she thinks you spend too much time with your best friend and not enough time with her. She wants to feel invited in your circle of friends. She wants to be accepted. Chances are she feels lonely when with you and your friends.

You did something wrong? Well guess what, she wont tell you what you did wrong. She thinks you should know what you did wrong and she's going to let you figure it out on your own. As much as she hates what you did, she'll love to see the effort you make to fix things with her.

She won't tell you how much she questions your love for her so let her know. She doesn't think she is good enough for you, so convince her she is.

Although she has little things she won't tell you, don't question her love. Guys and girls are a completely different species on the same planet. If you still don't understand her fully after this article, don't stress it. The chances of you ever understanding the opposite sex fully are slim to none. Trust her, when it comes to the important things she'll always let you know what's up.


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