by Jason Greer

Created on: September 07, 2009   Last Updated: September 08, 2009

In my personal opinion, I believe the greatest sexual experiences occur when both participants seemingly stop thinking, allowing the passion and the heat of the moment to take over as they eventually lose themselves in each other until they find themselves smiling and gasping for air. Experiences such as the one described above is the kind of experience you find yourself thinking and smiling about during some random day dream/flashback while sitting in class or at work.

Yet one might wonder, what is it that made the experience so memorable? While this is a question that probably has more than one answer, one of the main reasons an experience where the two people crawl all over one another while lost in a cloud of passion is due to the fact that both are confident enough to not worry about anything except having a great time. Their confidence affords them the luxury of being able to focus one percent attention on the task at hand and each other. They allow their bodies to bend and press against each others with a sense of natural comfort as each of them give it everything they have until it's over. Then as they lay in bed, sharing a smile and a cigarette, they think to themselves; why isn't sex like this all the tiime?

Once again, we have a question that has more than one answer, but let me assure you that there is nothing more aggravating and almost pointless than having sex with someone who is self-conscious about the way they look. Now don't get me wrong I am by no means knocking self-conscious women, more power to you. However, when it comes to sex, just be you, because one thing I can promise you is that the only person that is going to care about the way your naked body looks in the dark is you.

Another reason, in addition to the one I just gave, why being self-conscious about your body during sex is just a little on the silly side. I base that fact on the fact that if you are moments away from having sex, then the partner already knows what he is in for, and is actually counting down the seconds until he lets his hands do the talking. Finally, the time comes and clothes begin to hit the floor, mind you all lights are off and things are beginning to get a little warm between them. Hands start to slowly race up and down each other, but then out of nowhere someone's hand slides up the wrong area of flesh and then in just a few seconds things go from great to the absolutley horrible as it is obvious that the mood wasn't exactly where it was three to four

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