by Yvonne Green

Created on: September 02, 2009

10 Blocks To Success

So you've tried everything you know of to help you achieve your dream. You've watched 'The Secret', you've read all the self-help books, and done everything they've suggested, the visualisations, the affirmations, created a vision board and more, and still you feel no nearer to achieving your desired outcome. Maybe you're even ready to give up. What more can you do?

It seems to me that there are common themes that recur when we fail to achieve our dreams. Blocks, if you like, that stop us from achieving our goals and which will always prevent our success if we have them. Most of these blocks are subconscious. We may not even know we have them. They just fester away in the back of our minds, undoing all the good work we may do from reading, visualising, affirming etc. Have a read through the list below and ask yourself if any one or more of them may apply to you.

1. Deservability - The number one block we put on ourselves is deservability. We simply don't believe that we deserve to get whatever it is that we desire. We're just 'not good enough'. Self-esteem and confidence come into this category too. If you feel deep down inside, that you haven't the confidence to pull off whatever you're dreaming of, it'll never happen.

2. Doubt - We don't believe it can really happen for us. We're afraid to be disappointed when it all goes wrong (as it usually does.) We doubt not only ourselves, but the Universe too.

3. Expectation - We actually 'expect' things to go wrong. We believe that because things haven't come right for us before, they won't this time.

4. Belief - Could this really happen for you? Or do good things only happen to others?

5. Safety - Often we block ourselves because we won't feel 'safe' if we achieve our dreams. Who would you be without all that extra weight? Who would you be if you won the lottery? What would be the 'downside' of achieving your dream? Fear of success and fear of failure come under this heading too. Think about what you fear most about achieving (or not achieving) your dream. What if you get it and it's not enough, or it's not right? What if you don't get it? Are you holding on too tightly to your dream?

6. Scarcity Programming - This is the belief that there's not enough to go round. Or that if you have, someone else will have to go without.

7. Family Programming - These are the negative beliefs passed on to you by your family. It's usually your parents that tell you things like "Money doesn't grow on trees, you know,"

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