by D-Source

Created on: August 29, 2009   Last Updated: August 31, 2009

When discussing what attracts men to a woman, I feel it is also important to discuss what will keep a man attracted to a woman. However, the answer to these two questions are surprisingly different, therefore, I will address them separately. Let's begin with what attracts men to a woman.

It is important to first point out that there are different types of attraction. There is Sexual Attraction and there is; what I call Attraction of The Heart. It is important to realize there is a difference, because who a woman attracts, is in large part, based on what is attractive about her. This is something that a woman has considerable control over. The clothes she wears, the places she goes, her hair style, the way she carries herself, her conversation, tone of her voice and many other things can alter a woman's sexuality and beauty, in the eyes of men. Obviously, most women have a certain sexuality and beauty that is naturally unique to them as an individual woman. I believe most women are very aware of there own sexuality and beauty and are aware of how to use both to their advantage, when they want to. The problem comes in, I believe, when women confuse what they want with the way to get it. For example: If what you want is a hot night of sex (Sexual Attraction), then a short, tight, red skirt, high heels, an open back and a low cut neckline might do the trick. A sexy walk and a soft sexy voice will help as well. But don't wake up in the morning expecting him to want a relationship with you and your kids. That's not the kind of man you attracted. Now if you're looking for a relationship candidate (Attraction of The Heart), then a little less sex appeal and a little more of a classy look may be in order. There is a thin line that can be walked between sex appeal and class, that may produce better results. With this look; the man interested in a one night stand doesn't think you will go for it and won't approach you, but the man who is interested in a relationship, isn't out looking for a woman who looks like a One Night Stand. He is looking for a woman who is attractive and sexy, but in a more subtle way that doesn't suggest that he could take you to bed that night. Most men are initially attracted visually, but it is important that a woman realizes that she has power over the vision she presents and the type of man she attracts.

Now this brings up another interesting issue. Is the woman attracted to the type of man that she wants? The short, tight skirt may attract

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