When he leaves you for another woman, dust yourself off and carry on!

When someone leaves a relationship for someone else, yes it is going to hurt, but why beat your-self up over it? Let is go. Locking yourself away from society and running the hurtful scene through your head a million times will not help the matters or change them.

Keep in mind one thing. Most of the time when men leave one woman for another, it never works out. Also, keep in mind, that if he left you for her? He will probably leave her for someone else. Guys like this come a dime a dozen.

When you find yourself saturated with the hurt, remind yourself. That you are one person in this entire world! There are so many other people on our planet so he is not the only man who will ever come into your life!

Look at the situation as whatever happens, happens for the best. It is true. Even though initially you do not realize it or see the potential ahead of you. Now that he has moved on to what he considers ''greener pastures'' now you have the freedom to find someone better than him. In heartbreak mode, you are probably saying there is no one better than him. Well, think again. After all he is the schmuck who left you for another woman. Not all men are like that!

There are only two types of people on the planet, men and women. So if you look at all the people in our world, he is only one of many. There is an entire world of people out there. There is always someone for everyone and that includes you.

Also keep in mind, when he leaves you for another woman? The honeymoon state of mind that he may be in with her will eventually turn into a routine. Men have the tendency to get bored once things turn into a routine. With this being said? He may try crawling back to you when things do not work out with Miss Hot to Trot.

If he does try crawling back to you, hopefully by then you will see clearly what a schmuck he was/is and not give him the time of day. Do you want the other woman's left over? That is all he will be if/when things do not work out in his new paradise of emotions.

Dust yourself off, keep moving forward and do not waste your time looking back at where you have been. If it did not work out the first time, it will not work out the next time.

Wish him all the best in the new bed he has made and hope stinging nettle magically appears on the sheets when he lays his body down to spend a night with her!

Keep smiling! It WILL get better.

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