by Beckie Knowles

Created on: August 22, 2009   Last Updated: February 24, 2011

There is no 'right' way to get married. Every couple will have their own beliefs, styles and expectations of marriage, which will inevitably affect the style of their wedding ceremony and celebrations. The planning of such a momentous event is never easy, especially if you have never had experience of good organisation before. Whether you envisage your wedding as a huge, week long, exotic extravaganza, or a traditional back yard buffet, there are 10 mistakes every bride should take care not to make.

1. Bad Budgeting

Whatever kind of celebrations you are planning for your wedding, there will be costs to cover. Even eloping isn't cheap! Deciding your budget before you begin dreaming up plans is essential, just as putting it down on paper is. Be realistic, know where you are funding your budget from and prioritise where you want to spend the most money. Using spreadsheet software, such as Microsoft Excel, is great for fiddling around with everything your budget needs to cover and making sure your expenses don't spiral out of control.

2. Working Alone

You might enjoy hours of reading wedding magazines, designing invitations and menus, and being the only person your suppliers are allowed to consult. However, you will get tired. Planning your own big day is thrilling. I've enjoyed every minute! But trying to do everything yourself will mean that it's also just you carrying the stresses, burdens and responsibilities that come with the organisation of such an important event. Accept offers of help from friends and family. It's cheaper and more fun, knowing you have people you love and trust taking responsibility for some of the elements, such as flowers. The plans are still yours, but others are relieving you of the hard work it takes to make them a reality.

3. Pleasing Others

Too many brides compromise their own preferences and wedding day dreams because they are trying to please other people. Whether it's your mother, or your husband's, family members or friends, living up to other people's expectations instead of your own is futile. True friends and family will want you to be happy. Difficult mothers will never be satisfied and putting on a huge party that's flashy but not something you'll enjoy as much as your own ideas isn't worth your friends or co-workers being impressed. Please yourself and your groom. It's your wedding, your way.

4. Etiquette Worries

Tradition is a great thing. That doesn't mean it necessarily fits in with your plans. Don't worry about it!

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