by Tommy Koh

Created on: August 19, 2009   Last Updated: August 20, 2009

Human psychology has always been a very interesting topic to touch on, as different individuals have different ways of expressing themselves, especially in the realm of love and attraction. Thus, whatever that are discuss should never be used as an absolute but instead as a general guide to the minds of guys and boys alike.

So here we are, discussing how to know whether a guy is into you or not. There are many clues that guys give out when it comes to the game of love. Some are subtle (maybe not that daring,) and some are just outright flirting (and of course seduction!).

As a guy, I would say there are a few ways that a girl can tell whether a guy has interest. Through my personal point of view and experience with my friends around:

1.The amount of attention he pays into every detail of you and you only.

2. The need of being with you almost any other time.

3. The physical contact and attraction

4. The change in their usual self, to potray a better them to attract you.

Looking into point number one: Guys who are deeply in love with a girl, will tend to behave like what girls actually do when they themselves are in love. They remember your every details. From your favourite colour, your favourite food, your birthday, what's the name of your dog and - in some extreme cases - even the date and how you two met. The attention to details is a way that guys attracts girl to fall in love with them, because they portray their sensitive and care for details and, of course, the portray of love. So as such, it is something that a guy will not do for any other random girl. So in future, when you fall for a guy, test him with a question of possibly your birthday and sees if he cares to actually know your birthday and maybe take note of what colour you always wear.

Point number two: Guys are not much different from ladies in love. They will need the company, either in person or through any other means, eg. on the phone, through short messages, webcam. Whatever it is, they want your attention, they want you care, they want your concern and most importantly your opinions. Once a guy starts receiving the emotional support from you and comes to you for almost every other personal problems, it may be a good signal that he has a good interest in you. Though sometimes it may be confused with friends "heart to heart talks, so be careful on that.

Physical attraction has always been the ultimate weapon that nature has build into us to go through courtship and mating. When

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