It is an unfair burden on anyone to be responsible for someone else's happiness, however, if a wife desires to be happy there are countless ways her husband can help her get there. He can love her unconditionally, he can respect her, he can support her endeavors, and chances are she will be happy and fulfilled. There are a number of other things a husband can do to enhance or increase his wife' s happiness.
Effective communication
A spouse should not have to guess what is on the mind of a mate. Some ascribe to the notion that because a husband is the head of the house hold he is responsible for ensuring that communication flows smoothly. Whether or not that's the way a husband thinks, he should learn to listen and respond to his wife in a respectful manner. When communication between them is effective, it creates a forum that allows them to be able to discuss just about anything in the marriage.
Endless love
There are husbands who have difficulty saying "I love you," but if they can utter the three words and mean them, especially if they do not say them often, they will probably put their wives on cloud nine. Many wives not only want to be told they are loved, they also want to have that love demonstrated in ways that are unique. A husband should purchase his wife five roses, rather than the customary one, and present them to her. He should tell her he thought of five reasons why he loves her and then he should proceed to list them as he enfolds her in his arms and kisses her. Romance really does work.
Assist with household chores
When a couple works, there may be little time for romance, especially if the wife does the bulk of household chores. Many old gender roles have been eradicated or redefined; however, in many households chores are still pretty much the responsibility of the wife. If a husband agreed to do fifty percent of household chores, his wife will probably start seeing him as true partner rather than just another burden. This single act will no doubt enhance a wife's happiness.
Have fantastic sex
Sex is an important component in all healthy marriages. There was a time women did not discuss sexual preferences or dissatisfaction with their sex lives, but sex is no longer a taboo subject; therefore, if there is some dysfunction in the marriage, a husband should discuss it with his wife immediately. Among women, sexual dissatisfaction is one of the leading causes of infidelity.
There is much to be said about date nights, therefore, a husband should set aside time when he and his wife can be alone to reignite the passion in their marriage. Wives like to be wooed, so on your date nights, treat her as you did when you were dating. This will not only make her happy, it will also create greater intimacy between you.
A husband cannot be expected to be the single source of his wife's happiness unless she must want to be happy, however, if his wife's nature is positive and forward thinking, it will be his responsibility to see that she stays that way by supporting her and by loving her unconditionally. That will, in all likelihood, make her blissfully happy.