by Arvee Robinson

Created on: August 07, 2009   Last Updated: August 11, 2009

You're at a huge networking event. Nervously, you glance around the room and see many familiar faces. Some of the faces are new and are even smiling. These are the faces of your fellow club members. You have talked to them many times on many different occasions. So why should this be any different? Why do you have a big knot in your stomach? Why do you have an overwhelming desire to run? Why? Because tonight, YOU are the speaker. This is the first time you'll formally speak in front of your peers. Are you ready?

1. READY, SET, GO

When does your speech actually start? When you arrive at the lectern? Does it begin with the first utterance of a sound or word? No. Your presentation begins the minute the emcee begins to talk about you. The audience automatically sweeps the crowd searching for the speaker. Keep poised and confident. Remember all eyes are on you!

2. RISE TO THE OCCASION

The emcee announces your name, and the audience breaks out into applause. Now it's time to rise to the occasion. All eyes are on you, watching you. Gracefully rise out of your chair, stand tall, and slowly walk toward center stage. Take your time walking. The more time you take walking, the more status your audience will subconsciously give you. Let the audience's clapping carry you to the stage as if you were gliding on a magic carpet. Remember to watch where you are walking. There could be cords and wires on the ground or chair legs in your path. Any one of these obstacles could cause you to have a nice trip. If something awkward should happen on your way to the lectern, remain calm and use humor. Using humor connects people and is more effective than using self-deprecating remarks. Let your audience know that there's nothing to worry about, you're okay, and the show will go on. I remember seeing Robert Allen, famous author and millionaire, fall off the stage moments after he arrived. Instantly, he jumped back up on stage and poked fun at the hotel stage lighting, which had caused his fall. Allen's humor set the audience at ease, and they roared with laughter at his quick wit.

3. THE MOMENT BEFORE

Now, you can see your way clear to the lectern. The closer you get, the more nervous you feel. Not to worry, I have a theatre secret for you. Ever wonder how actors can just walk on stage as if they're already in motion? It's easy; they use techniques. One popular technique is called the moment before. The moment before is a trade secret actors use to create action

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