by Katherine D

Created on: August 07, 2009

Lets face it sometimes we really are tired, but most couples out there have admitted to being tired, of being tired. When your sex life just isn't keeping you awake anymore, you don't have to close your eyes and dream of a solution. Here are a few ideas to put the spice back into your sex life;

Look at your partner through someone else's eyes- When you view your partner in the way a stranger sees them you may find you make that extra effort to impress them. Try to sit back and watch how other's look at your partner. Do they find them attractive? Do they go out of their way to impress them? Try to refrain from being jealous and think of it as an educational experience. When you have observed enough, try treating your partner as if they were a stranger you are trying to impress. It is so easy to get comfortable in a relationship and forget the little things that got you there in the first place.

Play the question Game- This game consists of four questions that require direct and detailed answers. If you are too shy to ask your partner these questions face-to-face you can try sending and email to them at work, this gets their blood flowing and their brain pumping and also gives them time to think of the perfect responses.

The questions to ask are:

What do you want?

Where do you want it?

How do you want it?

For how long do you want it?

Act on a whim Sometimes you just want sex. It may not be the appropriate time or place, but dammit you want it, NOW! Well why not. It is a fact that spontaneous acts of sexual interest not only make your partner feel appreciated and wanted but also lead to further pleasure as well. Even if the thought is impossible at that moment why not pull your partner aside and share your thought with them. Chances are that just the thought of sex in the produce aisle will spark an all out frenzy when you get home. Just try not to break the eggs on your way in the door.

Try a little role play - This is a common cure for the lacking sex life. If you are afraid to full out act why not just start simple. When introducing role-play into a relationship it is best to start with small steps. You can try buying a sexy outfit from you local adult store, or simply piecing one together from articles in your closet. The most popular outfits are, police, nurse and school girls. You can also try the dirty librarian or naughty housewife.

Once you feel comfortable dressing up it becomes easier to act out the roles. You

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