by Beatrice Okorie

Created on: August 01, 2009   Last Updated: August 04, 2009

An abusive situation could occur on the job between employer and employee. It would not be easy to get out of if you depend on the paycheck. You might feel the boss is trying to force you to quit by his constant bickering. I would try and find employment else.

Pets can be abusive towards their owners too. When a dog does not listen to its owner and constantly barks for no reason. If a pet does not listen to its owner, then the pet should be gotten rid of.

Children can be abusive by nagging for attention. I would give the child a time table of events and explain that each event takes place in written time.

Politicians can be abusive by not seeing their constituents. Sometimes they might forget whom they are representing. Next time vote them out of office.

Abusive situations can be everyday occurrences that you may not be aware of. It can happen when you go to the store or in your car. A person in another car may give you the finger or a grocery chain could stop carrying a brand product because of its popularity.

The manager of the store could steer you into buying something else. File a complaint with the company store. Try to write down the license plate number of the other vehicle.

It is easy to think of an abusive relationship between a man and a woman. Sometimes women are more abusive than men. No one should stay in an abusive relationship. Plan ahead on how to get out of one.

Get out of an abusive relationship if your partner is constantly calling you name, if the person hits you, if your partner wants to isolate you from friends and family, if the person abuses animals, if the person is cursing and making accusatory comments, and if the person is asking you for money all the time.

Abuse can be very subtle that it goes unnoticed. Search for different organizations that can educate you on the affects of an abusive situation.

People can plan not to get into abusive situations by staying busy and volunteering. The more people you come in contact with, the more you are able to compare the different personalities.

Check with local shelters in your area just in case of a housing emergency. Sometimes victims of abuse have nowhere to go. Keep in contact with the police department just in case the situation gets serious.

No one is less of a human being because they have been abused. Stay alert!

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