by Saba Huda

Created on: July 30, 2009

As its aptly said "Marriages are made in heaven". You must try to do as much as you can to save your marriage through hardships and rough times. It is important for every couple to save their marriage and do as much as you can to keep your marriage forever. Often it becomes difficult to manage the relationship but you must try to save it from breaking.

Even though your relationship is going through a rocky phase and still you don't want to lose your partner and want to do your best to save your married life then take the following steps:

# Patience is the key :Relationships are fragile so do not panic if things are not working the way you had expected them to. Take your time to build the gaps and always make an effort to do the best you can.Never try to change everything just in a day ,thinking that if youdon't change then it will cause problems. So be calm and patient and let things take their own time.

#Take it slowly :Always discuss about the conflicts that you have had with each other and their outcomes. Try to find out ways that can solve your problems and remember not to rush after a compromise,take it slowly and give time to each other.It will help your relationship to develop one step further.

# Work as a team : Never lead a relationship on your own alone, always do it with each other and always get involved in it together.If you see that your partner is simply not bother thendon't do anything alone, just leave them alone to figure out the importance to being married themselves.

# Find a middle ground :You have to accept your partner the way they are and do not try to change them as per your choice as it deteriorates the relationship. Always try to create a comfort zone thats common for both of you so that you do not find it difficult to cope up with each others behavior.

# Agree to disagree :You and your partner cannot have same choices because you are two different individuals so remember to value each others opinion. It does not matter that you are incompatible even if you do not have same perspectives .

# Use space to your relationship :Take time for yourself if things aren't going well,do not think that you have to try and stay with your partner just to save your relation. Stay apart from your partner for some while to think upon your relationship and emotions this will help you to come out of you difficult times.

# Be reasonable,rational and calm :Always try to be calm when you have any conflicts and try to be cooperative with your partner.

# Acknowledge the reasons for your rocky period : Always try to find out what the underlying issue is that is causing problems in your relationships.Try to fight with the root cause of your relationship so that you can improve and build your relationship.

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