by Faith Bicknell Brown

Created on: July 28, 2009   Last Updated: July 30, 2009

Simple Ways to Show your Love

Women love to be wined and dined. They adore men who give them flowers, nice jewelry or perfume, but such thoughtfulness doesn't have to be a weekly ritual to keep their ladies happy. A huge bankroll isn't needed to keep a woman content either. Well, maybe that's not entirely true. Let's face it, there are a few gals out there who prefer a wealthy guy, but for the most part, women just want their men to be thoughtful, and a touch of romance is a bonus.

There aren't any rules written down in a sacred handbook for men called: Woman, The Unsolved Mystery of the Ages. There are no unwritten laws stating that men must buy women fancy lingerie or take them out to a nice restaurant every Friday night. The tiny, considerate things are more apt to impress a woman. Expensive gifts and lobster meals are wonderful (Who doesn't love both?), but small thoughtful ventures go a long way in reaffirming a gal's devotion.

When the warm months arrive, we clean the ashes from our fireplaces and freestanding wood stoves. This presents a wonderful opportunity to create a romantic setting for lovemaking. Secretly stock up on candles of all shapes and sizes, and keep in mind that if you buy scented candles, make sure all the candles have similar aromas. Too many different scents will clash and overwhelm an area, especially a small room.

Arrange the candles upon the grate or around the hearth, light them, and put on some music you both like. Simply wait for your lady to walk into the room, allowing the mood of the candlelit fireplace and music to take effect. Since most women love candles, she will appreciate your creativeness. Remember to keep a few candles unopened for her to keep, and perhaps it will urge her to create a similar evening for you some time.

Don't let your enthusiasm get in the way of common sense when it comes to using the candles. Be careful where you place scented lights if you opt to display them other places besides the hearth. A 911 call that your house is burning to the ground is not a memory you want to add to your list of romantic moments! Nor do you want to explain the reason you're partially bald, smelling like bayberry and cinnamon.

Most couples work different schedules. Many times we kiss and say 'I love you' as we pass one another at the front door. Find out what evening she will be home. Make her a meal, and if you can join her, that's even better. Your lady will adore the idea of not having to slave over a stove. Discovering

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