by Beatrice Okorie

Created on: July 27, 2009

Most people do not know what real love is. People repeat the words of passion on regular time. Passion to them is a forbidden fruit that must be tried on regular time.

Regular time is any time that can be spared. Some see their lifestyle as an occupational hazard. If they are caught having an affair they might be injured or worse face death.

We immediately think of men and their wicked ways. Women have come a long way in deceiving themselves and placing the blame on pet projects such as being lonely or being too independent.

A woman will have an affair to feel pretty, to get money, to feel wanted, for revenge, for future connections, for security or to mock the human race.

A man will have an affair because he feels that is his right as a man. That is it! Do not expect me to stretch it out. Men are not complicated creatures like women.

If a man gets caught having an affair he will give excuses because a woman expects him to. Otherwise, a man could care less. A man does not make a big deal over affairs like women do.

A woman will blame others for her affair. She might cry and worry about her future at the present. She might beg for forgiveness. If children are involved, she might use them as an excuse.

Affairs should not be forgiven because no one is forced into affairs. If you are truly in love with someone, you will not want another lover in your life. People who have affairs are taking advantage of the person who is close to them.

Before people get into serious relationships they have to understand what love really is. They have to understand the definition of being attracted to another person and sexual feelings.

Love is when two people express their meaning for one another at the same time. They do not have to speak. The connection is by thought and feelings. The two couples have an understanding of each other in the beginning and are willing to form a relationship to provide further connections. This is the testing stage of the relationship. This stage provides answers to how deeply each individual feel about one another. Love is a slow process of human emotions.

This is the difference between a sexual relationship and one grown with love. Sex is quick and forgotten. Love is born and not easily forgotten.

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