by Treasa Lascola

Created on: July 25, 2009

The greatest thing about my life is my wonderfully unique family. Most people wouldn't understand us. We are different in the way that we stick together, even though we should be so angry at each other, & ourselves.See, I can't have anymore kids, even though I'm in love & I want to, my body won't it. So, the Universe gave me another choice, forgive & love those who love you, whether they know it or not!

So, my Mom hates my Man. She backed him into a corner, because she didn't have all of the information. Hey Mom, he asked me to marry him & have babies with him. And I tried but, it didn't work out. I miscarried, due to stress. He & I talked about surrogacy after marriage. We saved money, but then, you dropped a house on me! Although, now I just see this as a poor girl's surrogacy. Because, I LOVE this BABY BOY! What a wonderful person! All this kid does is smile.Even your Granddaughter loves him. I'm happy, and so it's true; living well is the best revenge!

I Love my Mom and I Love my entire Family! Even the guy who cheated on me to make that Baby who smiles at me. He has been the Father and male influence to my daughter since she was 3 or 4 years old. While were on the subject, we all can't but help love this baby boy! Because, he is this incredibly, wonderful person! When my daughter and this little boy are in the same room, they make me forget that I was ever in pain! I swear that I can at least, (with way less medication, I've dropped a ton), when I look forward to , or can enjoy seeing the kids together, I feel better!

In my informed opinion, I must say that any large family should support the younger generation, so that we can all leave our mark. The World is mean enough without family dragging you down. So, regardless of your disagreements, treat each other like it's the last day that you will ever see each other. Life is too short for anger and resentment. So, we don't always have to agree, but , if we treat each other like a family of sorts, whether we are or not, then we may have a fighting chance at survival. Our bitter differences can't keep us all apart forever. We have to treat each other the way that we would want to be treated, eventually!

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