by Freddy Tay

Created on: July 24, 2009

The very fundamental thing to remember here to understand that attraction will not surface unless there is interaction. Show her that you are fun to be around with, and that in all that fun, there is a man residing inside you.

So going by this line of thought, you must think, oh, maybe we can go for exhibitions. Sure, exhibitions are the places that are full of interactive medium for the both of you mingle. A food exhibition, perhaps, can stir things up a little and topics will naturally come to the head. Feeding, teasing, actions that suggest interests, no overly explicit ones though, are the best tools you can arm yourself with.

Toy shops are great to hang out with. This works with your lady still has the child in her, so the both of you can talk about childhood, a topic many people are akin to. Many toys are creatively designed, therefore go ahead and exploit the functionalities of these toys and ask her to join in the fun!

Zoo rocks big time because there are just so many things the both of you can talk about. After all, dating is about knowing each other and getting closer if things go well. If you have been projecting a chauvinistic side of yourself, pat some animals and smile. This proves to be extremely attractive. Never treat her that way until the both of you are ready to be together.

Cooking is intensifying when the heat gets to the both of you. Any dish whipped up by the both of you will be heavenly, even if they do not taste good. No matter what the outcome of the dish, you just want to make sure the both of you laugh and tease each other. Keep teasing and do not hurt each other's feelings. Never see each other's cooking as competition. Plenty of conversation and great interaction.

Competition creates tension, this very tension is that same feeling you have when you see her with other males. Turn yourself into a competition by going to arcades. Challenge her, If you are good at a game, let her win, But if you are not, accuse her of 'cheating', tease, and do not stop the eye contact. Any sport will do the trick.

Just remember the key points to a date, tease, interact and get to know each other well. These activities will bring out her character more than a dinner or a movie outing does. So have loads of fun and enjoy!

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